I’ve written before about my selectively shy son. And today my mind is once again wrapped up in his reticence. My middle child often offers us only one word answers unless we really focus on drawing him out.
Don’t get me wrong- at playtime at the Hatches my boy would give […]
The Shy One at School
August 28th, 2008 · 3 Comments
Tags: Education
The Umpteenth Parenting Lesson
August 27th, 2008 · 16 Comments
My first reaction was dismay. I’d torn open the envelope from Ten’s school, the envelope we’d been awaiting for the better part of a week. It contained a letter from his soon-to-be fifth-grade teacher, as well as a list of kids who would be in his classroom. For whatever reason, there are […]
Tags: Parenting · friendship · school
Just For Me
August 27th, 2008 · 1 Comment
I was five or six.
It was about 8:00pm just outside Webster, Wisconsin. We were at my grandparent’s house. We had probably driven a couple hours from our home in New Hope, a suburb of Minneapolis.
I don’t much about arriving, about the conversations. My first clear memory of that evening is walking next to my Swedish […]
Please, Please Tell Me This is Just a Phase
August 26th, 2008 · 1 Comment
If only babies came with manuals and toddlers came with warranties.
That terrible whining noise that my two-year-old is making should definitely be enough to send him back to the manufacturer, if one existed. I take comfort in knowing that this is just a phase. That’s what people keep telling me, at least.
There’s a relatively new […]
Tags: Parenting
My Experience with Postpartum Depression
August 26th, 2008 · 5 Comments
Isn’t it interesting how we can think that Postpartum Depression is something that happens to other people even while we are surrounded by the signs of depression within ourselves?
I struggled with Postpartum Depression with three of my four births and I’m not yet out of the woods with my fourth. My fourth baby, Laurelyn, is […]
Tags: Mental Health · Pregnancy
Do You Feel Bad About Your Food Choices?
August 25th, 2008 · 5 Comments
We interrupt this saving money/food organizing series to examine an important question.
Do you ever feel like people are judging you based on the food you serve your family?
I know I do.
And let’s face it, most of us have probably looked at the eating habits of at least one other family and ummmm, drawn some conclusions. […]
Tags: Food · Parenting · nutrition
I’m Not A Doctor, But… (The Pain Scale Of 1-20)
August 25th, 2008 · 1 Comment
I’m not a doctor, nor do I carry any professional credentials, not the slightest. However, I am a stay-at-home, full-time, primary caregiver to two children. As such, I’ve developed certain techniques that work for me. I thought I’d share one; maybe you’ll find it useful. If not, hey, maybe it didn’t take that long to […]
Tags: Parenting
Please Don’t Stare
August 22nd, 2008 · 2 Comments
Whenever I go out in public with my twin daughters I get lots of stares and lots of questions. Most people are polite and smile at my girls. Some will make eye contact with me, others won’t. If they ask me silly questions, I respond using a pleasant tone and non-sarcastic reply (most of the […]
The Economics Of Family Values
August 21st, 2008 · 1 Comment
We’ve spent some time on vacation this summer visiting relatives, and doing group vacation stuff. Issues have come up from time to time about who pays for what, and it causes some awkward moments, so I thought I’d open this up to the GNM Parents readers to discuss.
In Dan Ariely’s book (and blog) Predictably Irrational, […]
Tags: Family · Finance · Money · Parenting · society
Live Intentionally
August 21st, 2008 · 5 Comments
September is as natural a month as January for making resolutions. Summer wraps itself up and the sun is softened by cooler mornings and the rumbling bus pulls to the stop and whisks the school-aged Punks away for hours of “reading streets” and “everyday math.”
And Mom walks back to the house holding […]











