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Kids Learn Languages, Adults Lost In Translation

April 8th, 2009 by Mary G. · 5 Comments

french sign with bad english translationMy five year old granddaughter corrects my French.  Carefully, patiently, frequently.  ‘No, Grama, it’s *burrrr*’ she says, doing that impossible Francophone thing with her tongue that makes the word sound like a cat’s purr.  ‘Br?’ ‘Burrrr, BuRRRRR!  Say it again, Grama.’  Sometimes she sighs and gives it up as a lost cause.  At other times she gets stubborn and we pat the word back and forth like ping pong champions until she is satisfied.  Until the next time, when I have forgotten how again.  And the huge brown eyes roll upward as she says to herself, ‘Elle a mis ma patience à bout’.

My generation of Canadians was taught French as a Second Language starting in Grade Nine for 40 minutes a day.  We memorized vocabulary and verb structures, wrote exercises and listened to recorded voices saying simple phrases that we repeated in unison. If we weren’t doing well at it, we were allowed to substitute Latin for our second language.  Or drop it altogether.  Or never bother, if we were in a secretarial or industrial arts stream. This program taught me to read French fairly well with the aid of a dictionary, understand some slowly spoken French and get frustrated by anyone speaking it conversationally.  I can say ‘Lentement, s’il vous plaît’* and ‘Encore une fois’** very well. My husband, another product of this program, got a lot of French training as an adult because he worked as a manager for the Federal Government.  He can understand talking heads on TV, but loses it in movies. His accent is worse than mine.

My daughters’ generation got FSL for 20/40 minutes per day starting in Kindergarten.  They learned songs and stories and numbers and had fun.  Some of them even learned a good bit of French that way. Parents who were serious about the kid learning French could opt for Early French Immersion, starting at Kindergarten or Grade One. My elder daughter did ‘Late Immersion’ with a year taught completely in French in Grade Six, followed by two bilingual years and ‘Enriched French’ at high school level. She came out of that with decent conversational French, good enough to let her work in the National Park system in French.  If you were a hard working, motivated student, this program worked out well. The YD, having watched elder sister slave away at the syntax and vocabulary, tore up the application form for this option and stayed with the 40 minute program all through high school, graduating with decent pronunciation and no grammar.  When she was hired by the Federal Government and had to be ‘Level Three’ bilingual, she spent months and years as an adult in French language training and she still needs to do revision.

These FSL choices are available to my granddaughter, but her parents chose a different route.  After bilingual daycare from eight months old, she graduated to a French Language school and an attached French Language daycare. Her French was mostly passive when she started junior Kindergarten (Maternelle) at age four, and she struggled for the first few months. (Big brown eyes awash with tears, she told her mother that she was afraid of getting things wrong because she did not understand.) However, she sopped up the language like the sponge children are designed to be at four and younger and is now level with her Francophone contemporaries and doing fine.  And terrorizing her grandparents and her parents, of course.

I fervently believe in the value of banging language, grammar and vocabulary into the heads of children from birth on up. Fluency in the milk tongue and a second language if possible, good reading and writing skills made accessible by fluency: these things are the recipe for success in whatever the growing child and adult decides to do. I would be happy to argue that Barak Obama is President today because his mother hauled him out of bed very early in the morning to give him extra English training. There are a lot of routes to language competence – I’m not specifically advocating for early rising or second language immersion or cue cards here. And I don’t expect everyone to end up as a language lover who plays games with words and lives to write. But language is a tool box.  The better the tools, the better the job the tool user can do.  Even more than the bike helmet and the rubber boots and the mouth guard and the vegetables, skill with language is a survival tool, enrichment and protection all in one.

In my granddaughter’s case, success in learning a second language well enough to fit in was a hard job but her success at it has made her a much more confident child. And certainly one who can teach her old grandmother new tricks.


by: Mary G.



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5 responses so far ↓






  • slouching mom // Apr 8, 2009 at 9:11 am

    I wish a program like your granddaughter’s had been available for my kids when they were her age, and sponges. I think being bilingual — heck, trilingual! — is such a good thing for a child.

    And for our world, too.

  • XUP // Apr 8, 2009 at 2:48 pm

    My first language was German and on my first day of school I couldn’t speak a word of English. By Christmas I was the best reader in the class. I started learning French in Grade 5 and aced it every year — until they got into all the grammar and conjugations. Then I dropped it. As a federal government employee I’ve been on some French language training and again, it’s all grammar. This is a horrible way to learn a language. It doesn’t stick. My daughter is in high school and there is only a requirement for 1 French credit throughout the whole of high school. In Ottawa? This boggles the mind. I’m still fluent in German and can speak and understand every day French, but don’t ask me to conjugate a verb.

  • AmyL // Apr 8, 2009 at 6:58 pm

    Mary, would you please come and explain all of this to my children? They never believe me when I tell them that language is so important.

  • Mary G // Apr 10, 2009 at 6:05 pm

    Amy, one of my daughers didn’t believe me either. As an adult she came back to me and said ‘Why didn’t you make me learn French.’ Sigh
    Xup, you are right. But without the grammar you never sound educated. Surf around the place a while and see people abusing ‘lie’ and ‘lay’, jumping off of things and meeting up. Drives me nuts!

  • Tait - Teach kids pronunciation for several languages? // Apr 15, 2009 at 12:53 pm

    I’ve noticed that even adults that are quite good at learning languages have trouble with the pronunciation. Is it mental or physical? – I’m not sure. For children that only have limited time to learn a language, would it be a good idea to teach them the basics of pronunciation for several langugaes? This could give them a good base for when they start learning other languages later in life.

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