I took TechnoBoy and The Mercenary for their very first sports physical today. At the tender age of 10, they’ll be starting football practice in a few weeks. I have to say, the whole thing is a little unnerving. I didn’t start any formal sports until I was in the 7th grade. Okay….I’m realizing that was only a couple of years older than the boys are now. It sure feels like I was older than they are now. I wonder if my parents felt like I was hurtling through childhood faster than they could catch their breaths.
And football. It sounds so, I don’t know, official. Big men play football. Not my little boys.
Right?
No, I guess not. The weird thing is that I am looking forward to part of it. The part where they pursue a goal, overcome obstacles, and work with other boys as a team. That part I like. The part where they might be injured? Not so much my favorite.
I don’t have issues with kids playing sports. In fact, I encourage it. I was just plain awful at sports in school and my self-confidence suffered every time I was the last kid chosen for teams. I want the boys to have some basic skills, to be able to keep up and play competently with kids their age at whatever sport they choose. I also like how kids have so many opportunities to try out different sports at a young age; it’s good for them to sample and have a wide variety of experience.
At the same time, I’m concerned that they’re already approaching an age where the competition gets so serious that if they’re not downright gifted in a sport they won’t be able to make the team. Kids are able to play soccer as young as 5 years old (full disclosure: MY five year olds played soccer this year). By the age of 10 or 12, a child who’s chosen to play the same sport has a tremendous amount of experience under his/her belt.
What do you think? Are sports for really young children a good idea? Are we broadening horizons or adding stress to their little lives? Do sports build their confidence and competence, or push them along toward adulthood too soon?
by AmyL
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